Key-note Speech for 2010

Welcome to the 'First Decade of The Second Melinium ' People! :

Firstly, we do apologize upon not updating our blog ever since the sem-break started, as my comrades and I were busy managing our holiday routine. Everyone is busy enjoying their holidays until we have insufficient time or perhaps forgotten to blog.

My aims in the year 2010 :
1) Discuss more interesting facts in the blog.
2) Share more about our personal experience with the people in public.
3) New ideas and issues will be discussed here.
4) More news about uni, discussing new ideas how to improve the lifestyle.

Quote: A New Year, A New Dream, A New Revolution

By,
Cygnus

Love behind all scenes

First thing that comes to your mind: What kind of love are you talking about? Family? Friends? or Relationship? Practically i'll be focusing on the relationship in this article...For some of them, have you ever wondered why are we still mingling around with the status of single? I  believe you are one of the millions who are actually deperate to get into relationship...But why is this so? Sometimes, i just don't really get it that much comparison is being made among friends,being desperado to find a GF/BF just to show off? or just really love their partner? Nobody knows except only he/she himself/herself knows. We'll discuss further on the attitude change, problems faced and pros and cons of involving in relationship.

1. If you're a sensitive friend, you'll notice the changes below after your friend in love:
a) Generous -----> stingy (saving money to spend with gf/bf)
b) Communicating with someone we don't know by all means [clinging on phone, skyping, msn 24/7]
c) Ulu Fashion ---> Modern Style
d) Boistrous --->silent
e) Open minded ---> closed minded
f) Matured Thinking --->Childish thinking
g)etc...[all could be happening vice-versa]

Beyond all these, let's move forward with problems faced in love xD
It's quite normal that couple usually fight, but it's rather odd if couple DON'T FIGHT AT ALL. I believe most of the problems initiated by communication error. This happens when both get into relationship too fast without mutual understanding between the two. Besides, couples sometimes love to argue over small thing...I wonder why....But one fact for sure is, noone will ever willing to lose..In this case, boys should be always the be the one who SHOULD [nt must] lose. After that only teach the gf/bf the values you desired. Teaching should come with patient, this really helps a lot. I believe most of us today uses "reverse psychology" to live in this society today. The more you say no, the more they say yes. Why does this thing happens? It's easy...just the mindset problem...no complication... Let's see...let's link reverse psychology and attituide with an analogy...Imagine, you collide two hard rocks together, what would happened? Ofocurse two rocks will produce sparks for sure, but have you noticed there's a mark left behind? Next, collision of jelly with a rock. I bet you're laughing to see i use these two items to compare, but let's see the effects 1st, then only decide to laugh on or nt. A rock collide with jelly, what happens? Rock sinks into jelly, leaving a bigger whole inside compared to the 1st one, see the point? Lastly, collision between 2 sponge, ofcourse u already knw the answers. Therefore, think of all these before start inculcate any values...it applies to  all teachings.

A quote by me: "The one who is single is the happiest when the couples fight, but when the couples are  sweet,  you're the one suffering."  [Cygnus]

Trust versus Love

I think everyone wanted to be trusted and be loved by someone. I can't deny that I also 1 of them. As time pass by I found out that both of these 2 thing actually very hard to get. I wanted to trust by other and do something that dishonest towards that person just to get the trust. Then is that trust that u get is worth it? Love also the same thing, we always do something that loved by others but not ourselves. Is that call true love?

Love and Trust is a weird thing and I think I can write a lot about it. This is an Introduction I will write more about it soon. Before I end let I give you another situation and you think about it.

If one day got one person come in front you and give you 100 million real cash. Will you accept it?





I know that most of the people sure wanted to take it but after 2nd thought they will think that the person sure got motive to give such a large amount of money. Why don't we take it? I didn't say that the person got motive is it? That is human, we cannot accept some sudden large happiness. We just can't believe that our luck is so good, because we can't trust ourselves and others, include fate.

TOFU BOY

Friendship Vs Self Principle

People must be thinking why am I writing this topic. It becomes rather interesting as i move on [being paranoid =.='']. Let's define the both words first. Friendship is given the defination of the cooperative and supportive relationship between friends. Meanwhile, self  principle is given a defination of having principle set in their own respective lives. Many must be wondering that how are these two related in our lives?I believe that it happens daily as it comes and goes without our awareness. Sometimes when we think back these two statements, you may find your self in dilemma because you don't know which statement do you want to fulfill. You'll have these words in the mouth of the heart.

" If I mix friendship and emotion during work, it sounds un-proffessional to me, as it breaks my principle and    my reputation will drop"
"But if i care about my principle, my friends will say I don't care for them, then friendship is getting vague then  "poofs" it's gone...and you'll get lots of complains"

Many found out that they will have these kind of problems haunting their entire life... Some even can't sleep after doing something breaking their own principle. However, there is no need for us to be sad, friendship should be kept aside during work no matter how long your friendship has been going on. We should be a little more proffessional able to devide tham equally. "Work is work, play is play, and so on..." During work, we should put private "stuffs" a side such as friendship, emotional and etc... We NEVER must let our emotional to control us and affect our decision. And one more thing, never let others affect your decision. We should also never let gossips affect us. Let others talk behind you, or else you'll have too much to care, resulting in mental break down. There are times we do need to look into friendship, but it is not definately during our work time. If your friendship is strong enough, your friends will definately understand your prinsip and try not go do anything to harm your pride...If you are willing to break your principle, never blame on others. It is your own will to help people. For what i think, those with self principle should sometimes abit linient on their own especially helping other people. "Well comfort yourself" atleast I  help people.. but not as the following situation.

Stituation:
You are taking care of a prize redeeming booth and your friend won a prize and collecting from you. He is suppose to get [eg a voucher of A less valueable and your friend get to know that voucher B is more valueable. So your friend begged and asked you to exchange the voucher to voucher B. But at the same time, it is in the public... and it's against your own principle of work which is "hnesty". What will you do? In this kind of situation people will usually dilemma concerning their action....whether to stick with his honesty
 or to fulfill a friend's favour.

In life, we often come across these problems similar to the statement. Depending to situation, you really have to be felxible sometimes as not strictly just follow the principle. However, we can never allow emotional to affect our decision as it might lead to misjudge of something... Happy Reading

-Cygnus-

Universal Liquid, Water

Hahaha~ Crappy I feel like million of needles poke into my heart with your previous post. Oh, since everyone got a nick name I called myself as "ToFu Boy". It kinda weird why I choose this name but is just a nick.

Ok, let start with my topic. Today, I want to talk about water problem. Here, in UTP, it almost like a desert since the humidity level at Tronoh is low and from the geographical view its soil is in sand base. So we can assume that formally UTP also is on a desert. In desert, means that water is needed to maintain the plants around UTP and everyday day and night we can saw water sprinkle keep open and sprinkle water around the plants. Do you think is need to be sprinkle all day long include night time? Erm.... I think is not necessary, it so cold at night and I don't think the humidity of the soil that u sprinkle at afternoon will evaporate during night time. What they do is wastage of water! Our fresh water supply have its own limit and going use up soon and why we still keep wasting it?

Besides, it also very weird that almost all the pipes in UTP leak! Do UTP so poor that they can't buy a new pipe or repair it? The water keep leak and that is a kind of wastage of water. If UTP see way in long term , which will be bring more losses? I hope that UTP can take concern in this issue.

Will UTP admin will take action on me? I don't know but if they take action on me but not on the pipes it is quite pity. UTP, if you like a feed back from your student you should accept what we mention and try to improve but not catching all of us and treat us.

Anywhere, UTP you done a good job in saving mother nature by banning use of polystyrene food case. Instead of that you propose to use food case make by recycle paper. At least we have start our 1st move to save the mother nature. *clap*


Thats all from me and see you next time! Cheers!

ToFu Boy

becoming fat or becoming thin?

Alright...before i start writing my blog...let me introduce myself 1st...im the one that u can call "The Crappy"...ok...now let's start the blog...aft spm,most of us will continue their studies...and i don't mean the form 6...i mean those who are going to colleges and universities...ok,let me share with u my experience...i'll start with my 1st bro...he study in utm skudai...when he came bac home for holidays,my mum will surely ask..."Walao,y u so thin adi?"he will give excuses like didnt get enough good food,not enough rest,a lot of stress and so on...then,my 2nd bro...he's worse...he study in ums kota kinabalu...so when he came bac home,my mum will say the same thing and my 2nd bro will tell the same thing...and the worse thing is that he got thinner than my 1st bro...he's like a "lidi" or should i say he's like a tree branch...and this goes the same to my sis who study in upm serdang...she doesn't only got thin,but her face bcum much paler like a vampire...and now its my turn...i study in utp tronoh...ok,let me be honest with u...act skudai,kota kinabalu and serdang are much much better than tronoh(shhh...keep quiet)...there are so many choices of food especially CHINESE FOOD in those 3 places rather than tronoh...so i just wonder y my siblings got thinner when they came bac home...but for me its so weird...coz i didnt get much thinner...instead i got FATTER(not to say that im as fat as sum1 in utp who stays in my block below my floor)...my siblings bcum thinner and im the only 1 who bcum fatter...THAT IS SO WEIRD RIGHT???alright...that's all i just want to express...if there is any interesting topic that i want to share with u...don worry,u'll get it A.S.A.P....chow for now!!! =)

The Crappy

Small Palms

Today i'll discuss about the topic.....What do you understand from the topic? Well it refers to the kids or normal term called children. Today i went to the orphanage somewhere in Taman Merdeka, Ipoh with 13 other people. Of course or team prepared well enough to visit the orphanage. Well that orphanage isnt that big because the number of inmates also not that big. Well, it consists of 10-15 kids and about 5-10 teenagers. Ofcourse i joined the kids' part [though i looked like kids,but i'm not]. A few of them seems to be isolating themselves from our team. But somehow, in the end we managed to get them talk and participate with us. When i look into their innocent eyes, they seem to be sad or something somehow, though they pretended to be happy. Their palms are so small, yet cute but somehow i felt sad when i touched their hands. Its not like i'm acting like a noble who dislikes them, but i felt their sadness and sympathy too. Many brothers and sisters [same family] reside in the orphanage too. Ofcourse i did enjoy my day with them, the funny thing is they love visitor to give them a ride on the shoulders. I chatted and played with them for whole afternoon. I ask them a question, "What do you do here when you're leisure?" some answered, study, reading story books, doing homework and watching TV...The next question i asked them, "What is your ambition?" ofcourse some too young they will answer superman, power ranger all stuff, but some says i don't knw. From the orphanage, i noticed that they are lack of discipline and manners. I wonder do their "foster parents" do really guide them well. But i can entirely blame the fosters parents because they have to look after 30++ inmates and have to handle their live too. I think they really did a good job by maintaining the orphanage and so on, however it can be improved ^^.  In the evening, when i'm piggy-bag'ing a kid, he asked me "Are you going to come next week?" I answered "Sorry, can't make it next week...But i hold his shoulders and said "study hard and we might meet next time or next year" Then he wanted to cry...But i say don't worry, i'll visit you in future.

Moral behind this visitation:
1. Always feel grateful of what you are and what you have.
2. No matter who you are, you still play an important in life to the universe.
3. Live for today, tomorrow and future....

Cygnus