Love behind all scenes

First thing that comes to your mind: What kind of love are you talking about? Family? Friends? or Relationship? Practically i'll be focusing on the relationship in this article...For some of them, have you ever wondered why are we still mingling around with the status of single? I  believe you are one of the millions who are actually deperate to get into relationship...But why is this so? Sometimes, i just don't really get it that much comparison is being made among friends,being desperado to find a GF/BF just to show off? or just really love their partner? Nobody knows except only he/she himself/herself knows. We'll discuss further on the attitude change, problems faced and pros and cons of involving in relationship.

1. If you're a sensitive friend, you'll notice the changes below after your friend in love:
a) Generous -----> stingy (saving money to spend with gf/bf)
b) Communicating with someone we don't know by all means [clinging on phone, skyping, msn 24/7]
c) Ulu Fashion ---> Modern Style
d) Boistrous --->silent
e) Open minded ---> closed minded
f) Matured Thinking --->Childish thinking
g)etc...[all could be happening vice-versa]

Beyond all these, let's move forward with problems faced in love xD
It's quite normal that couple usually fight, but it's rather odd if couple DON'T FIGHT AT ALL. I believe most of the problems initiated by communication error. This happens when both get into relationship too fast without mutual understanding between the two. Besides, couples sometimes love to argue over small thing...I wonder why....But one fact for sure is, noone will ever willing to lose..In this case, boys should be always the be the one who SHOULD [nt must] lose. After that only teach the gf/bf the values you desired. Teaching should come with patient, this really helps a lot. I believe most of us today uses "reverse psychology" to live in this society today. The more you say no, the more they say yes. Why does this thing happens? It's easy...just the mindset problem...no complication... Let's see...let's link reverse psychology and attituide with an analogy...Imagine, you collide two hard rocks together, what would happened? Ofocurse two rocks will produce sparks for sure, but have you noticed there's a mark left behind? Next, collision of jelly with a rock. I bet you're laughing to see i use these two items to compare, but let's see the effects 1st, then only decide to laugh on or nt. A rock collide with jelly, what happens? Rock sinks into jelly, leaving a bigger whole inside compared to the 1st one, see the point? Lastly, collision between 2 sponge, ofcourse u already knw the answers. Therefore, think of all these before start inculcate any values...it applies to  all teachings.

A quote by me: "The one who is single is the happiest when the couples fight, but when the couples are  sweet,  you're the one suffering."  [Cygnus]